Toto funguje s daty, která jste poskytli, nelze říci, že by to fungovalo v MySQL, ale funguje to na serveru SQL.
select t.in_click,
t.first_name,
t.create_date
from tracker t
where
t.create_date = (select min(create_date) from tracker where in_click = t.in_click)
or t.create_date = (select max(create_date) from tracker where in_click = t.in_click)